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Posts
- Binge on my Thought Catalog Articles
- Cosmo Feature in February Issue | Women and Debt
- Gay Men and Chrisian Wombs: Surrogacy’s New Frontier
- First piece for Thought Catalog
- The Story of ‘No’: S&M Sex Clubs Sprout Up on Ivy Campuses, and Coercion Becomes an Issue
- Cosmopolitan ‘True Crime’ Feature
- Some quick pieces I’ve written in the last ~Month or Whatever
- Talking with a Sex Psychic
- Sex-Ed Fails
- Other People’s G-Chats: Queer Love in Jamaica
- Edgeplay is… Exactly what it sounds like.
- Feature: Neither man or Woman. Meet the Agender
- What Happens when you take a Porn Star Speed-Dating for NY Mag?
- BACK TO SCHOOL | Talking with Dan Savage about Sex on College Campuses
- I went to a Lesbian Cougar Meet-up… And I liked it?
- Another G-Chat story: The one where one of you is Moving Away…Wanna share Yours?
- Love in the Time of G-Chat: That Relationship that you can’t stay Away From
- Pay it as it Lays | Straight Male Escorts and The Straight Women who see Them
- Born to Die: Lana Del Rey and Women using their Sexuality
- Say it Three Times into The Mirror: Sha-ron Nee-dles, Sha-ron Nee-dles, Sha-ron Nee-dles!
- In Defense of “Pink Journalism”
- Should we do away with “Sex Positive”?
- The Christian Sex Industry??
- Couples Living with Roommates
- I talk to VICE about my Sex Writing
- WTF G-Spot Orgasms
- Some Kinky Tips for Curious Vanillas | 50 Shades of Trying Things
- Writing for Jezebel. Also, let’s Discuss some Things. Like, Zoophilia.
- Come Again? Adventures in Erotic Hypnosis
- The 17 Year Old | What Makes a Pedophile?
- How the Wife Became Weak: Interview Excerpt
- Scared of Men
- You Aren’t Supposed to Say That
- Can Men and Women Just be Friends? or the Line of Being “Just Friends” & Hating that Question
- Writers Curiosity: Into the Troll Museum & Down the Rabbit Hole with Elf Girl, Rev. Jen
- Best Sex Writing of 2012: Behind the Scenes of Latina Glitter
- The Part of a Movie where the Girl Gets a Make-Over
- The Story of Story: A Traveling Stripper
- Is Divorce a Bad Thing? A History of the Wife Pt. 2
- Birthdays and Periods: The Old ‘How You got Your Period’ Story
- Talking about the Future of Relationships at Occupy Wall St. Pt 2. Monogamy
- Talking about the Future of Relationships at Occupy Wall Street Pt. 1 Polyamory
- Feature for New York Observer: Abortion Doulas and the Future of Abortion
- Getting over PiV [Or how Lesbian Sex Changed my Str8 Sex]
- Do you Believe in Marriage? Pt. 1: Some History on the Wife
- Praising Monogamy
- What I learned at a Sugar Daddy/ Sugar Baby Party
- Re-visiting No Make-up Week
- Long Live the King: Why don’t we Love Drag Kings like we do Queens?
- I interviewed My Parents about Their Romance
- The Future of Marriage and Non-Monogamy | A Conversation with Pamela Haag
- What’s up with the Bisexual Double Standard?
- Some Things…
- Rock Groupies and Feminism
- Let’s Talk About what Can we Learn from Asexuality.
- Is Fashion Feminist? | The Dialogue Between the Two
- Male Sexuality: What’s Missing from the Discussion?
- Sex Workers on Questioning Anti Trafficking Orgs
- Don’t Want no Short Dick Man | Our Cultural Obsession with Penis Size
- The Surprising History of Douche in America | From Birth Control to Feminine Hygiene to Put-Down
- Stories & Other Things I’ve Been Upto
- Returning to SlutWalk’s Roots or Does SlutWalk Slut Shame Men?
- Why is The BFF Relationship so Romantic? And so Female?
- New Stories, Moving to NYC
- Why do Girls Feel More Depressed after First Time Sex?
- GUYS: How to Pick up Women Without Negs or other PUA Gimmicks
- Things I learned from a Male Pornstar
- Women Who Buy Sex: The Secret Life of Jane
- How to be as Horny as a Guy
- Exploring Online Hook-ups in Three Parts
- A Story: Learning your Partner is Someone you Love, not Someone you Don’t
- Inside the Northwestern Fucksaw Debacle | What Really Happened
- A Rainbow of Dresses: Ketty Teanga and the Country’s Oldest Latino Drag Bar
- Porn Secret Round-up
- Guest Post: You Can Put Your Clothes on Now
- Lady Porn Day Video Chats Part 1
- Mini Porn Interview | Buck Angel
- Lady Porn Day: Get on Board
- Having Sex with a True Love Waits Christian
- The Two Week Relationship
- I Made out With a Dude from “The Pick-up Artist” Then Interviewed Him
- Bisexual Boys I have Known
- Long Live The Ballroom Circuit
- Lady Approved Porn: Behind the Scenes of the Man Project
- Interview with a Clown Fetishist
- Female Circumcision Promoted in Playgirl–Whaaat?!
- Zentai | When the Mainstream Likes your Fetish
- Who are These Men that Buy Sex? “Johns” + Sex Workers Rights
- The Bisexual-Bisexual Marriage
- Non Sexual Nudity: A Tool for Body-Love
- What I Learned about my Sexuality from Gay Men in Rubber
- Q & A: The History and Future of Condoms
- Sex Journalism and True Work
- Orgy Etiquette: The Juicy Details of a Swingers Party
- Party Animal
- The Weird Angles of Your Insides
- Asexual Masculinity: Behind the Scenes of the Man Project
- The Veritable Rainbow of Naked Face
- Best of No Make-up Week
- No Make-up Week Participant Interview
- Dodson & Ross for No Make-up Week
- Alle Malice’s Epic Guest Post: Why We Wear Make-up
- My Make-up History in Photos
- Make-up is Sexual
- Do Men Prefer Women with Make-up?
- Experiment 2 | Test the Toxicity of your Make-up
- The Toxicity of our Cosmetics
- Feeling like You Need it: A Personal Make-up History
- *BONUS* No Make-up Week: Video Diary Day One
- The No Make-up Week Experiment
- Male Pornstars: Behind the Scenes of the Man Project
- A Vignette: Loving Boys that are Friends not Boy-friends
- Tao Lin on Sex Scenes, Masculinity & Gender
- Senior Citizens and BDSM
- Carol Queen Talks about Old People Having Sex
- That Time I Worked at an Egg Donation Agency
- What I’ve learned about Sex from Asexuality
- Getting a Sex Education: Behind the Scenes of the Man Project
- How do you Know your Gender? Behind the Scenes of the Man Project
- Men & Feminism: Behind the Scenes of the Man Project
- Exploring Male Anorexia
- Music in Relationships
- Who’s Afraid of Bisexual Men?
- When you Have to get an Abortion
- How Men & Women are Different: Behind the Scenes of The Man Project
- Where the Boys Are: Profile of a Male Prostitute
- Having Sex when You Don’t Want Sex
- The Strangest Ads for Menstrual Products
- Makeup Tutorial Reversed: Why Women Wear Makeup
- Street Harassment: Why Ignoring it Doesn’t Work
- Masculinity in Leather
- Reflections on Graphic Sexual Horror
- Little Plastic Rings: The Ethos and Eros of Foreskin Restoration
- Wild Things, Sexual Empathy & Knowing you are Whole
- In Defense of Slut-O-Ween
- Confessions of a Teenage Bisexual
- Stupid Girl
- Being in a Relationship…With Yourself
- Open the Door for your Mystery Date
- How Naked Jen got me Naked, an Interview with a Guerilla Nudist
- The (Teenage) problem without a name: Girls and Depression
- Oprah’s segment on buying your daughters vibrators
- Hearts Revolution (Music Feature: Interview)
- Are you positive you’re sex positive?
- (Music Feature ) Interview with Larry Tee Electroclash’s not dead
- Wardrobe: stripped and swapped
- Purple Crush: Welcome to Club Emo (Music Feature)
- Dandi Wind (Interview)
- Orgasmic Birth (Just…why not?)
- Is Bisexuality Dead?
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One Comment
I love this. I don’t feel like sexuality should be so strictly defined as it is in our culture. There are so many non-western cultures out there that accept what we consider “bisexuality” not as taboo, but as the natural order of things.
I personally adore the term “omnisexual” and apply it to a dear friend of mine (which he lovingly accepts). You need to meet him some time; he exemplifies omnisexualism. He has been known to say, “I’ll fall in love with whoever I fall in love with. Why put any limits on that?” He has this ease, the freeness about him that is mesmerizing, intoxicating, and frankly, quite sexy. Just form knowing him, it is CLEAR to me that the rules of defined sexuality make for repressed inidviduals. In a perfect world, we could all be so much happier if we broke past hetero, homo, or bi and just embraced the pan.